We decrease back at my boyfriend of a couple of years frequently and luxuriate in it simply as much as he does. Often into the temperature of this minute we’ll ask him to seize my locks in which he’ll take action for my benefit. We have a tendency to direct each other during sex. Nevertheless, whenever we ask him to spank me personally, or place their arms around my throat etc he will be rough in different ways *explicit lol* but will not do when I request. We asked him that he didn’t want to « risk it » and end up hurting me physically somehow about it afterwards, and he told me he was afraid he’d hurt me and….